Tuesday, September 2, 2008

the bully!!

Although it is something i have tried to supress and make myself think "this is not happening to me in couldn't be" i have finally faced the fact im being bullied!!
this all started about 5 months ago a friend of mine well some1 i once thought was a friend got in a relationship with boy who has minipulated her and made her turn against me and put me down!!she does this by text messages or phone calls harrassing me i tried to pretend it wasn't happening tried to ignore until i realised the problem was much bigger then i was! i confided in my mother and i admire her strenght she made me see my own strenght im still terrifed though!! i have a made a promise to myself tht i will help support anti-bullying charitys i no what it feel likes now and i feel for any1 who must endure what i have it is not a nice feeling it is demeaning it has taken away my confidence!!

1 comment:

Captivated said...

Hi Efa.

This makes me a little sad. It's awful to think that people can be so unfeeling but it happens.

I've read your blog and you seem to have wisdom beyond your years. It's quite beautiful.

I remember experiencing this same thing at your age and it was a serious let down coming from someone I considered to be a friend. Just remember that some people are not as smart as you are and that when they take these steps to degrade you it is only because they are afraid to spend the time looking at themselves. You are in fact stronger.

Thank you for your comment in my blog as well.

Good luck to you this year...and you are so right, they go by in a flash so hold on tight for the ride. I look forward to watching your blog grow and seeing what's new with you so I am adding you to my list. Dream big Efa, for a person without dreams is truly a person without.