OK so i have this best friend who happens to be guy we've been friends for about 3 years now almost 4 and all of a sudden he springs on me that he really likes me and thinks he's falling in love with me now i have been in a state of shock for about 3 weeks now since he told me i don't know what to feel its confusing it brings back the old question never get with your best friend because you'll end up losing them like he's a great guy no doubt about it and everyone says we'll be great together but I'm afraid of risking everything over one stupid move! the idea of losing someone scares me like knowing that if we broke up we'd never be able to get back the long phone conversations and hours spent txting each other!and to make matters worse i do have slight feelings for him but i also have feelings for other guys as well I'm not ready to dive int0 something but i feel bad for keeping him hanging on i just don't know what to do anymore its like i don't want to break his heart but what if i end up doing that i couldn't bare the thought of it i just don't know what to do honestly should you give it a shot with your best friend and risk everything or play it safe and don't act on idle feelings??what do you think??
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k 1st of all... do you like anyone else? because trust me if you do go for this guy you'll think of the others... well i would.. and have
i've have situations like this
it all depends on how much you like him,
if you could see something happening with him...
you know.
whats good about going out with people you were close with before is like you know them and you know how they'll respond to whatever you do its not a guessing game.
yeah i've had similar situations
Dating your best friend is tricky. I speak from experience. It's very risky. It has it's ups and downs like everyother relationship but the thing is you have to consider the fact that you may loose him entirely at the end of the day plus be sure just like Marla said that you do not like another person first.
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